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Module 3: CHW Skills › Lesson 3.5 · 7 sections · ~45 min

Boundaries and Self-Care Skills

Learning Objectives
  • Understand why setting and maintaining professional boundaries is important for CHWs.
  • Identify seven categories of "blurred boundaries" and how to respond to each.
  • Name general strategies for setting and maintaining professional boundaries.
  • Define and describe the signs of compassion fatigue and burnout.
  • List steps CHWs can take to reverse compassion fatigue and burnout.

The case for boundaries

Being a CHW can be rewarding — but also very challenging. Always solving problems is stressful, especially when you can't fully meet patients' needs. Being kind and building relationships is crucial, but sometimes CHWs get too involved, feel worried, or wish they could do more.

Knowing when to set limits and take care of yourself helps both you AND your patients. This lesson covers professional boundaries, the challenges that come up in CHW-patient relationships, and self-care.

Boundaries are like rules that outline how you want others to treat you. They help define what behaviors are okay and how to respond when limits are crossed.

Why boundaries matter
Boundaries prevent CHWs and patients from being taken advantage of, make CHW roles clear (reducing anxiety about expectations), model healthy boundaries for patients, and help CHWs stay well and avoid burnout.

Seven categories of “blurry boundaries”

CHW work involves listening to concerns, learning about people's lives, and becoming part of their support system. That closeness makes boundaries unclear.

The seven categories

Six strategies for setting boundaries

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Set Clear Limits
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Clearly define your role from the beginning. Maintain firmness and reinforce limits when necessary.
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See it in action

Setting Boundaries with Clients — Example 1
Setting Boundaries with Clients — Example 2
Reflection

In which conversation did the CHW effectively establish professional boundaries? What did he do differently to make the conversation successful?

Knowledge Check

A client in crisis asks you to lend them money and let them stay at your home for a few nights. What is the most appropriate response?

ALend the money this once — they're in real need and it would be unkind to refuse.
BDecline directly but offer to help them find resources, e.g. “I can't give you money or a place to stay directly, but I want to help you find resources that can assist you.”
CTell them it's not your problem and end the conversation.
Case Study
AlejandraDedicated CHW · Quietly burning out
Situation

Alejandra is known for her tireless commitment — working long hours and sacrificing personal time. Colleagues admire her dedication. But recently they've noticed a change. Her usual enthusiasm and energy have been replaced by apathy and fatigue. She's finding it difficult to focus, her work quality has slipped, and she feels constantly exhausted, frustrated, and overwhelmed.

What the CHW Did
  1. Colleagues notice her enthusiasm has faded into apathy.
  2. Her work quality slips and she struggles to concentrate.
  3. She feels constantly exhausted, frustrated, and overwhelmed.
Outcome

Alejandra is experiencing burnout and compassion fatigue. She's going to be okay — but only if she gets the support she needs. The rest of this lesson is about how to recognize that and how to help someone like her.

Two related terms

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Burnout
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Chronic stress that leads to exhaustion, detachment, feelings of ineffectiveness, and lack of accomplishment.
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The three components of burnout

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Exhaustion
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Drained. Lack of energy to work efficiently, concentrate on tasks, or follow through.
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At the core of burnout: disillusionment
We put energy into a job, relationship, or cause. But no matter how devoted, our efforts can feel never-enough. Demands are constant; breaks are minimal. We deplete ourselves and become disillusioned with the very thing that once moved us.

How burnout is different from stress

STRESS

  • Feels like "too much" — overwhelmed
  • Makes us over-engaged; emotions overactive
  • CAN be positive (moderate stress boosts performance)
  • Short-term and situational — we expect it to lessen when the situation changes

BURNOUT

  • Feels like "not enough" — depleted
  • Makes us disengaged; emotions blunted
  • Always negative — hurts performance, judgment, and boundaries
  • Long-term and constant — improvement feels impossible

What burnout looks like

Watch for early signs
Burnout creeps up slowly — day-to-day stress can morph into long-term burnout if you're not careful. Watch for early signs (emotional first, then behavioral, then physical) so you can change direction before it escalates.

Three strategies for recovery

When burnout becomes overwhelming, CHWs must not ignore it. There are three strategies to reverse the effects.

1. Lean on Social Connections

2. Prioritize Self-Care

3. Improve Your Work Life

Help your friend Aaliyah

Your friend Aaliyah, a dedicated CHW, is overworked and doubting her ability to make a difference. Can you provide the guidance she needs?

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Practice conversation
I'm overwhelmed as a CHW lately. I keep making mistakes and can't seem to stay motivated. With all the obstacles my clients face, what can I really do to help? I feel I've lost my passion for the job.
Lesson Takeaways

🌟 Key takeaways

Building good relationships with clients is critical CHW work — but so is protecting yourself. Seven categories of “blurred boundaries” come up regularly: self-disclosure, dual relationships, physical contact, rides, money, gifts, and friendship/romance. Setting clear limits, reflecting before sharing, paying attention to your feelings, discussing concerns, seeking help, and knowing when to step back are your tools. And when boundaries slip and burnout starts to creep in, social connections, self-care, and work adjustments are how you come back.

🎉Great work!
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At the end of this module, you'll join a live discussion with your cohort and an instructor. Great work — we'll see you there!

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